Woman know your worth!

 Woman do you know just powerful and valuable you are?  

Knowing your worth can influence your decisions and approach to situations.
Many women reject submission but as a Christian woman I go by the word of God, and I use many of the principles laid out, and I have gained much success, fulfillment in my marriage and life as a result.

I want to share with you, my point of view coupled with my experiences.
I'm a go-getter, outspoken, fruitful and blunt woman. I say it as I see it so in no way am I a walk over.
​I, however, refused to be caught up in the vicious cycle of the "battle for position."  

I choose to step into the purpose and utilize my unique greatness!  I often say to newlyweds, or engaged couples marriage is not for the weak or the faint of heart, and you should understand what you're getting involved in before getting all wrapped up in feeling and jumping into marriage!  
Marriages are failing all around us!  It's sad because so much hurt and pain is attached.
People treat marriage as a disposable towel.  

I asked many couples who split/divorce, why they separated many spoke of selfishness, self-centeredness, control, abuse. But the one that tickled me is when I'm told they did not know what they were getting into and no one told them… in my mind did you pay attention to the vows?  

I sometimes wonder if we only hear one side of the vows, because your vows tell you exactly what you can expect, and you said yes enthusiastically! Many hear the "good, health, riches, to have and to hold but for some strange reason in sick, bad, poor, forsake all others till death do part " goes unheard or ignored?  

You never know what side of their personality a person may be hiding but do your part! 
"Before stepping into marriage ladies know your worth and investigate his as well and pay attention to sign even subtle ones! "

Women know your greatness you have much value!
Women are an amazing creation and asset to this world!   
We have the power to shape homes communities and nations! 
                                          
Amazing because we have a crucial function to walk in!

One of the most powerful strengths of a woman in my humble opinion is that God created her to be a helpmate. That's a huge task!  
You have to operate in wisdom, work smart, be an incredible negotiator, be able to bounce back quickly, multi-task, be a good communicator, manager, be a quick thinker, strategist, intuitive, discerning, wear multiple hats, be a nurturing mother, loving wife among other things!!

Now, ladies and gentlemen, submission does not equate being less than, abused, used, controlled, mishandled, taken for granted or walked upon.

Get it clear, A Proverbs 31: 10-31 woman shouldn't settle for anything less than an Ephesians 5:25-27 man! 

Why give anyone your greatness, brilliance, and strength if it's not seen, respected or valued? 

Happy relationships cultivate happy families! 
Happy families cultivate productive children who bring value to the communities! 

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Remember before marriage look for the traits of a Proverbs 31 woman and women pay to look for the characteristics of an Ephesians 5 man. The traits of these two characters compliment each other!  

Love unconditionally, forgive daily!
Wishing you much marital bliss and success.
~ Coach Shelly.

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